Hi naturelover07,

I think if you didn’t have a house and a dog together breaking up with him would be SO much easier!! Add your people pleasing instincts to that…

Listen, if your BF cheated on you, deep down he wasn’t happy either. And the fact that he got caught also means that subconsciously he WANTED you to find out!

Selling the house and letting him keep the dog would be a blessing to both of you. It IS a blessing.

When he fights, cries, pouts, argues, acts better or acts worse when you break up with him, just repeat to him and to yourself: “It’s a blessing.”

Best,

Inky