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Dear Shirley, Earth Angel:
Regarding balance between pain and joy, I say eliminate as much unnecessary pain as possible, you will have enough left to balance the joy. (Stress is on UNNECESSARY pain).
I like the idea of you being relaxed, laid back, like Dave. Like I wrote to you before, I believe it is very good for you to associate with laid back people- that would be like “the air element to keep me cool and also to help me feel lightweight and happy.”
I read the history of Andrew becoming competitive with you- well, I still wish he wasn’t, but as long as you can surround him with the cooling air you can muster via your visualization, then it will be okay.
You were excellent at visualization all though this thread. Quite amazing, really!
anita