Dear hangdo:

He still accesses the dating site where you met him, oh, I see. Well, chances are he is not interested in an exclusive long distance relationship with you. I say so because he spent only a short time with you in a foreign country to him; he is back in his own country, back to his social life, seems like he is not too shy or isolated from women his age, still accesses a dating site.

He probably wants to keep in touch with you but does not want an exclusive relationship. I may be wrong, this is why an email can clarify this. Send it if you are able to endure the answers (or lack of, if he chooses to not answer it at all).

The truth is what it is regardless if you are aware of it or not. So the email will be about you becoming aware of the truth, of reality (not changing reality, only knowing what it is).

It is about whether you can handle the truth. I believe life is better when we see the truth for what it is and relax into it best we can.

Please do post again. I will answer every time.

anita