OK, Anita. Thanks for such thought-provoking and meaningful advice. 🙂 I considered your words and thought over the root issue you mentioned. I admit that more than Jerry, it’s her sister who hurt me with her words. Though like you another friend also told me that it’s not wise to take a 15 year old girl’s immature words so seriously, but I still cannot get over it. I guess it indicates the lack of confidence and self respect within me. But yes, no matter how long it takes to reconcile with Jerry, no matter whether she maintains a stony silence or sends back rude and unfriendly replies, I’m determined to not lose my temper under any circumstances. I won’t be sending her any reply without showing you first. I’m going over our thread as you suggested.

I had kept the “sweet to deny it” part because she and her sister mentioned it twice before. “We have no anger towards you, we just don’t want to have anything to do with you anymore.” And “don’t know if you’ll reply”, had kept it hoping to appeal to her conscience. Of course, can delete them if needed. Otherwise the message is alright I hope? Anything she and her sister can twist and take wrongly?