Hi gg4tp,

This sounds like something you have to live with or be done with. Or he has to make communicating with you a new daily habit. His default mode is non communication. He’s not a bad person, I think it’s just not in his nature to “check in”. I’m the same way. Days will parade by and I’ll suddenly think, “Holy crap! I should check in with my family!” Friends have it worse. Weeks! Months! I get SO involved in what I’m doing or enjoying the moment I literally forget to text or call.

Checking in with you should be part of his routine (say, every day at 5) OR you should/could/would leave him. OR accept that’s the way he is. And it’s OK.

Best,

Inky