Dear pieceworkjeanaol-com:

You avoided your sibling in the past because she threatened your well being, and so you protected yourself from her by having no contact with her- good job on your part!

She wants to know what she did to deserve you avoiding her- and you are considering answering her instead of just deleting her email.

Things to consider in deciding what to do:

Did you tell her in the past that you had a problem with her aggressive behavior? If you did, how did she respond?

anita