Another thought (just read your earlier post)…

I am happily married. But I don’t go on and on (and on!) about how happy I am even on social media.

Is he trying to convince YOU… or himself? He is transferring his guilt and bad feelings onto YOU by bragging in the office about his perfect marriage to his perfect wife in a fairy tale setting. Give me a break!

In fact, if you want to shut him up, ASK him (privately) just that: “Who are you trying to convince? People are talking. Cut it out.” He’ll stammer, hem and haw. And ask you who “the people” in the office are. Don’t say another word to him after that though.

What’s he going to do ~ tell everyone that you guys had an affair? You are in the power position. And in fact he’s the one playing a dangerous game as you could easily tell his wife.