Dear Nina,
I think whether you like a guy or not is just a personal feeling. Sometimes it is hard to explain. But I think he does have some characteristics that I like. He is funny so he can make me laugh a lot. He is also an expressive person. For example, in just a few months, he already sent me hundreds or thousands of pics: what he had for lunch, what he was doing in the office, etc. This made me know him better and I feel like I have known him for a long time. I felt close with him. Besides, while I know some guys who are quite “pussy”, this guy acts like a man all the time. For example, when it rained, he would took off his jacket and put it over my head; when I felt cold, he would make the air-con weak, etc. So in general, I like his manner. However, I know he likes flirting with girls and enjoyed being “loved” by girls. He only remembered me when he is bored. But I cannot complain. He did not promise me anything and we are just friends basically… I am not sure whether he understood why I suddenly disappeared and did not contact with him anymore.. (note: This guy does have some bad characteristics. For example, he is a bit self-centered..etc. But.. you know, when you like a person, you somehow accept his flaw…)
I don’t have lots of relationships before. Just two. The first relationship started when I was 15 and it lasted for 8 years. The guy was older than me and he took great care of me. The second relationship is my last one. This guy and I have similar background and we shared a lot of our problems. If I had problems, he was supportive. I was so sad that he did not tell me that he had another girlfriend.