Dear Anita,

You are right. I calmly spoke with him yesterday and everything is fine now. I analyzed my thoughts, told him what I needed, what I can and cannot do right now in order to grow from it and declared what I am willing to do for the future. I reassured him that my feeling did not change and our moments of happiness surpasses the bad. He was very respectful and told me he respect me to telling him.
However, I still feel a bit disappointed – but I didn’t say something about it – when I saw that he has albums of picture about half naked women wrestling. I guess he does not remember – he often told me that.
I am kind of reluctant to talk to him about these issues because I never know how to address them calmly and clear enough. If you ever have any thoughts about how to communicate these kind of things, I’m open to them. These are inconsistencies in my eyes but I am aware that he probably forgot he has these on his FB profile.