Dear spats1996:

You asked: “Should I try to talk to her?” and “Can I mend the friendship?”

My answer: Maybe later but not before you examine why you were not honest with her, why you lied about the age of the friend you helped with the house, why you made up a story that you had a fight with him…?

Also to examine: your childhood: relationship between your parents and between you and your parents. Did you learn to hide the truth and try to manipulate circumstances from them?

anita