Dear marie:

So he often misinterprets things you say- anything you say has the potential to trigger him into anger. It is like you walking in a minefield and triggering hidden bombs. There is no solution to this problem- you can’t prevent him from being triggered. He is unreasonable and you can’t tame his minefield kind of brain.

Regarding weed, I read personal accounts again and again about people taking weeds and experiencing anxiety, even psychosis. So the stuff can be dangerous, at least to some individuals especially when potent or taken in great amounts.

You asked if you are in a toxic relationship- toxic enough to make you sick and vomit. And you are very attached to him, to the … poison.

What are you going to do, marie? Please do post again, anytime. Your situation is difficult and I do hope it is resolved soon.

anita