Hi kittycat100,

A day will come in the future. You will see him from across a crowded room and he will look, well, how do I put this… gross. (TRUST ME.) Time, distance and the ravages of age will make you barely recognize him. And/or word will come to you of him having other affairs. Then you’ll be mad at yourself not only because of the moral failing, but also because he’s not attractive enough or awesome enough to warrant it even in a poorly written drug store romance novel. Like, you will be embarrassed to admit even to God that you had an affair with HIM. As in if you were GOING to have one affair with a married man in your lifetime, OMG, why did you waste it on HIM?

And that’s how you get over it.

Blessings,

Inky