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InkyHi Kath,
It sounds like you’re as attracted to your “shoulds” as you are to those guys! Or rather, you’re searching for the right “should” as you would be searching for the right guy! 😉
In life there are no Shoulds. Not… REALLY… And that’s what makes life so terrifying!!
There is no right or wrong here. Date none of the guys. Date all of the guys. Date a slew of different guys.
This is what I would do. DON’T feel you’d have to do it!!
If I was attached to taking a break, I would leave all three guys alone, and regroup next year. Then I would make 2017 the year where I am like a Japanese dating sim… I would date everyone at once. Not be exclusive. And do it fairly openly. From there I would narrow down my choices Bachelorette style. Every month or so give someone a “rose” and cast someone else off.
Good Luck!
Inky
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