Hey spence,
Forgot to mention this but seeing as your topic post is “cheated on and looking for answers”. Here is some strong advice for you young man. You may never get an answer. You may get something 10 or 20 years later, but don’t hold your breath trying to get an answer. Similar people such as yourself have been trying to get answers and they have eventually lost, whether it’s high school or a marriage that lasted years.So learn to rise up above all of this.
Thank you and take care
-AP85