Hi green,

Her guy friend is married, correct?

I would become friends with his wife. Seriously. Talk about what’s going on. Have it all out in the open. All four of you meet and have it out. It will get awkward. LET IT BE AWKWARD. They are trying to make something that’s not OK normal.

Your partner is utterly selfish.

Open relationship? Fine. If that’s the way it has to be, then I would also be stick around until your son is older and then sell the house.

I am sorry you are going through this.

Inky