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Dear panicinthedisco:

My input following reading your post: at least following the honeymoon phase you mentioned, the man you dated, your “partner” was not much of a partner. You asked if it gets better: it can get better if you aim at dating a real partner, one who is interested in a lifetime mate, in living together, common goals and who is okay with saying I-love-you and fine with meeting your mother.

Evaluate the men you meet before getting too emotionally invested (we can see clearly without emotional fog), and proceed from there.

Make your dating goal oriented, more scientific, efficient, give it the thought and planning you would to looking for a particular job. Instead of waiting for whatever job may appear on your doorstep, evaluate the jobs available and apply to those that you determine may be a good fit. Then proceed.

anita

anita