Dear rsreelatha:

You mentioned the following problems in your current life:
Loss of social status and respect as a result of a divorce.
Unemployment.
Advancing age as a difficulty in getting a job.
Difficulty/ inability to have biological children.
Helplessness, anger and frustration.
Strained harmony at home.
Misunderstanding and blame in relationships with friends.

I suppose you live with your parents and maybe siblings? If moving out is not an option, then living where you are living now needs to feel safe and comfortable for you. This would be the first thing I would attend to: your home base. If you’d like write more about home life and we’ll take it from there.

anita