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  • September 8, 2016 at 5:14 am #114592
    SLR
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    Hi
    New here, have the following issues

    1. went through shocking and abrupt divorce after 10 years no kids, impacted my social status and respect
    2. struggling to get job due to age though i have good education and experience and communication
    3. doctors mistake and experiment costed me my health motherhood and now into complications
    4. misunderstood by many as i feel helpless and bursts of anger and frustration strained harmony at home
    5. misunderstanding and blame by my close friend and break up

    Looking for ray of hope for good

    September 8, 2016 at 7:51 am #114600
    Anonymous
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    Dear rsreelatha:

    You mentioned the following problems in your current life:
    Loss of social status and respect as a result of a divorce.
    Unemployment.
    Advancing age as a difficulty in getting a job.
    Difficulty/ inability to have biological children.
    Helplessness, anger and frustration.
    Strained harmony at home.
    Misunderstanding and blame in relationships with friends.

    I suppose you live with your parents and maybe siblings? If moving out is not an option, then living where you are living now needs to feel safe and comfortable for you. This would be the first thing I would attend to: your home base. If you’d like write more about home life and we’ll take it from there.

    anita

    September 8, 2016 at 8:28 am #114605
    SLR
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    yes i live with my sibling and mom. lost father recently so kind of disturbed in that angle as well.

    September 8, 2016 at 8:37 am #114608
    Anonymous
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    Dear rsreeatha:

    What is your relationship with your mom like? And with your sibling?

    anita

    September 8, 2016 at 8:39 am #114609
    SLR
    Participant

    honeslty i burst out in frustration at time and they are equally tensed in their own way and do the same its kinda every one is disturbed after death

    September 8, 2016 at 9:04 am #114617
    Anonymous
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    Dear sreelu:

    I sure hope your mother, your sibling and you find some peace following your father’s death. I hope the tensions settle. I would attend to this need- for home life to be calm, for the three people in the home to live peacefully with each other, comfort and help each other.

    Often in distress, people turn against each other and destruction is the result. It is constructive, healthy and helpful for people in distress to turn toward each other.

    Can you promote such a dynamic at home: turning toward each other?

    Regarding your friends, what is the blaming and misunderstanding about?

    anita

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