Dear sreelu:

I sure hope your mother, your sibling and you find some peace following your father’s death. I hope the tensions settle. I would attend to this need- for home life to be calm, for the three people in the home to live peacefully with each other, comfort and help each other.

Often in distress, people turn against each other and destruction is the result. It is constructive, healthy and helpful for people in distress to turn toward each other.

Can you promote such a dynamic at home: turning toward each other?

Regarding your friends, what is the blaming and misunderstanding about?

anita