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Nina Sakura
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Mahia,

This tendency to stay in contact so frequently after breakup is very normal for guys especially. You both had daily connection but truth be said, being friends isn’t that simple. The feelings are still there and one needs to learn how to move on from it. Staying so much in touch with him will not help any of you – I know you feel bad but trust me, it’s for his own good that you do stay friends but keep limited communication for a while after the breakup. He is a grown up and needs to tap into other sources for support – going to you repeatedly right now will mean he will never be able to move on with his life.

Be kinder by taking the harder way.

I was forced to do the same with my ex…time heals but first that space is needed.

Regards
Nina