Anita,

Yes. you are right!!!. I did involved in the business, since I promised her during those times and to show my gratitude towards her, I joined the business, and still she argues that, she has not changed and I’m looking at her other relationships in a different perspective, bcos of my insecurity issues and nothing more to it… I’m really not sure, what exactly this insecure issues means? I’m not jealous or possessive, I just miss her and needed her to be with me as she used to be spending more time and be dedicated.

But, my question is, how can people get closer to other people at a personal level(not including sex), when they are already in a committed and close relationship? is it possible? will we get those kind of thoughts to get closer to someone else, if we are already close to someone at a soulmate level…