So, anita, communication is all it matters? can we do anything, if we communicate appropriately? what should i do now? fight or flight? or leave it as it is and let time heal this issue and find a solution??? or just pull back from the business and go on my way??? even though, if i do any of this, i would have to still meet her or see her once in a while during family outings or parties or functions, during which time, I may get those feelings back….I’m not sure about this but.. to be honest, every time i see her or interact with her now, I’m getting more irritated or kind of mild hatred, as to, why should i be with this woman or why should I be doing this to her, who has not taken care of me or my emotional well being, when it was much needed….I dont want to pretend to her, having one thing in my mind about her and doing the other, when I’m meeting or being with her even formally…