Anita,

I’m getting to the point…so, how do I change these core beliefs? if a person wrongs us, and not being honest with us, we should forgive them and move on, right? or do we seek clarification from them and understand why they did it… even then, will we be the same person again knowing the truth? can we be with them in the same way, we used to be? so, it’s better to move out right? or just accept them as they are, since they did what they felt was right to do at that time and as long as that person, agrees to it, we can let them go and move ourselves out and continue with our life..i’m still confused on which way to go..