Dear Liquidsnake:

Maybe your father did what he “felt was right to do at that time”-

Does he feel NOW that what he did then was wrong? Did he tell you that he was wrong?

If he did, let me know what he told you, how he showed that he feels regret for the ways that he harmed you and and I will reply to you then.

If he did not apologize to you, if he didn’t express regret for the ways he had harmed you, then he is still harming you, isn’t he?

anita