Dear Liquidsnake:

I think you were right. She verbally abused you- that was wrong of her. She did wrong.

You were right to assert yourself as you did, telling her: ” I can’t take either her abuse nor her emotional outbursts”

Notice this, she told you that “this was a fake relationship, and she will not be believing me anymore for anything.” Well, it is for her own good then, for her own well being to NOT have a relationship with a person who she cannot believe, isn’t it?

You did the right thing to be “cutting all contacts and ties with her” and walking away.

Again: it is the right thing for you, absolutely (being verbally or otherwise abused is never the right thing for you!) and it happens to be the right thing for her, to not be in what she considers a “fake relationship” and to not be with a person she “cannot believe.”

Unless she needs to be in relationship with you just so to explode and feel better for a while after her explosions/ outbursts. And my goodness, you don’t want to fulfil that role in her life: be a place for her to dump her distress so she can feel good for a while… until the next time she needs a relief of her distress.

anita