Dear mommalicious:

I don’t think it is wrong for you to block him or anyone from your online accounts. It would be wrong maybe to be inconsistent with blocking: let’s say: block, unblock, block, etc.

You wrote that you feel addicted to him, strongly wanting to reach out to him. From what you describe you can’t successfully reach out to him because he has trust issues that predate you and read to me as being very strong. If he attends competent psychotherapy on an ongoing and persistent basis, then that therapy can reach him and then he may reach out to you or you may successfully reach out to him.

Without psychotherapy, or otherwise (if possible) him taking on the healing process, there is no chance of you getting anywhere with him if you reach out to him again, is there?

anita