Hi greenshade,

I think being attracted to unavailable people is your subconscious talking. When you fall for an attached person that’s your unconscious saying:

1. Someone else wants him so he’s worthy

2. If he picks me that means I’m better than her, which must mean I’m an awesome person

3. Everyone else who ever rejected me in the past was therefore wrong if a worthy person chose me over someone else.

If you don’t want to “give up” reframe that thought and replace it with “I have boundaries”.

Blessings,

Inky