Dear mommalicious:

Good job with your last post to him. It was very kind of you to repeat your message to him that he is “amazing and awesome just how you are. Never forget that”- a very loving message.

But as you wrote: “Love is just not enough to make a relationship work”- your love has to meet his love for the relationship to work. When he is closed to it you are like the electrical plug of the coffee maker I use every morning: no coffee made unless the plug is connected to the electrical outlet and electricity is available. It takes both: a plug and an outlet for an electrical machine to work. Same with a relationship.

Hope you post again anytime you need to.

anita