Dear XenopusTex:

Well, maybe it will help if I share my experience communicating with you on this forum, on the Scratching Head thread:

I know that I have no ulterior motives in regard to you. I communicated with you so far with a double motivation: to learn from you and to help you, a Win-Win motivation. I know that I am 100% worthy of your trust in the context of this forum. I am not a defendant in court where you are the prosecutor. I am not aiming to meet you in person and benefit from your money and otherwise, I have no plans whatsoever for your money.

And yet, often enough you ignored my posts to you. When other respondents wrote to you, you didn’t start your replies with a name, as in “hi anita” or “his (someone else’s name)”. Often enough you ignored the content of the post to you, didn’t respond.

I am thinking in your day to day life, with these women, that you also didn’t respond, didn’t interact and somehow expected things to happen without your participation.

anita