Dear anita,

Did you selectively miss my post where I wrote that the miracle part was a figurative speech? Or the last part that I don’t need an actual miracle but a real second chance? Do you seriously think that I imagine miracles and magic spell after the thorough analysis of the consequences of my actions and the actions of other?? Do you not see that the world of wage labor is totally collapsing worldwide and it is getting harder and harder to get hired, waiting for months, do you not follow such newsletters?
If you pretend to be the community psychologist… I wish no one to experience workplace harassment and SHAME on people who say that the victims of harasment or any kind of abuse “deserve” or “let it happen” or “aren’t assertive enough”.
In fact I am PROUD of the way and time frames I handled my behaviour during the bullying period and was surprisingly flexible in recovery according to the therapist I saw then. DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT COMMIT SUICIDE IN SUCH SITUATIONS???
Do you know that when you are out of this there are not only health consequences but also consequences to your professional life and your reputation as BAD employee which are much harder to beat than the normal competition for jobs???
If you are a fan of modenr psychotherapy that puts all responsibility in the person for absolutely all events in their life, well that’s a beautiful thought but as much as unrealistic as “making miracles” happen. I’m sorry but only a maniac can think that they can “assert” events in their life or other people. Yes I can establish the boundary when invaded and take what I want and belongs to me. See me assert to your unempathetic and impractical lack of advise post.
Is there a thread that you allow someone else to be the lead advisor?