Dear neverhavethis:

You want to know how to approach Guy A?

Before you did not approach him although you liked him very much because you believed he should approach you. When he did approach you, telling you that he had a crush on you, you were not available (had another boyfriend). When your relationship ended you did not let Guy A know that it ended and still expected him to approach you. When Guy A’s brother approached you, you had sex with the brother. When confronted by Guy A about you and his brother, you told Guy A that you had sex with his brother because Guy A didn’t approach you.

So, if I understand correctly, you decided to be assertive and approach Guy A (instead of waiting for him to check if you are available and then approach you)?

anita