Hi Brandi,

Yes, you are so right. Alongside processing the whole situation I want to now spend time focusing on making my life whole, so that if I do have another relationship I come to from a place of personal security (well, as much as possible) and perhaps that way I won’t be attracted to a man like that.

I continue to miss him, dream of him etc; but I get it too. There are moments of clarity & then moments of utter panic because I am used to him being the one to build me up. It’s time for me to give that to myself- somehow x

Thanks xxx