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Jay Paige
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Hey Ntwalker!

To be honest, I did not think so. I had a lot of doubt because I felt as my relationship goes along with him, he will judge me because of the educational access he had. I want to believe that he is very sorry, but going further this changes alot of things between us. He stated he “expected more better grammar from me because of my class of education but I expressed to him that grammar does not only come from education. It would be your environment that you are in or it could be I know but I just do not care for correct grammar because I am quickly texting him. This is not a new job I am applying for or a resume for a new job so why do I have to correct myself. Lastly what makes incorrect grammar bother you so much, what really is the issue behind it? I think its like what Anita said. “Maybe he is uncomfortable with you because of your race, having negative thoughts and feelings regarding your race, and he is expressing his discomfort indirectly, via the topic of texting-grammar”.