Dear blkhwkdwn1:

I somehow missed your post of three days ago. I was glad to read the fun, light hearted correspondence with her and then I was surprised to read your last post. Such a difference: in the post before last she sounds caring and affectionate and you were full of humor and good cheer with her. The last post- what happened?

Maybe your feelings change a lot from day to day. Don’t expect to feel the same closeness every day. Allow for change. Feelings don’t stay the same (like the weather, they change) and two people don’t stay as close all the time, sometimes closer, sometimes farther. So allow these changes.

It is not All- or- Nothing. At least I hope it is not. Try to be flexible. She reads like a caring individual, caring for you!

anita