Dear sjvp1994:

After just reading your last post, going back to your dilemmas/ questions in your original post:

* ” I am unsure whether it is okay or not for me to confront him about any of this, because we are not in a real relationship after all, therefore he has no obligations towards me.”

Yes, it is okay, actually, it is necessary that you confront him about his disrespectful communication to you. It is necessary to confront anyone regarding their disrespectful behavior toward you no matter the nature of the relationship. If a person disrespects you- there shouldn’t be any relationship.

He does have an obligation to act and communicate with you respectfully. It is his obligation!

He said that his disrespectful comments to you were jokes, well, he better stop joking.

* You suggested “making myself a little detached from him would be a good idea, to stop expecting things from him”- when a person disrespects you, detach yourself all the way to No- Contact whatsoever. Disrespect is not something you should endure, learn to live with without getting so hurt. It is something he shouldn’t be doing!

As you can read, I greatly dislike his disrespect of you described in your last post.

Do post again, anytime.

anita