Anita – I agree with you that I need help which is one of the reasons I came to this website which I have found very helpful. In terms of help from someone, I have a great friend and she has been very understanding in many ways. She has the patience of a saint. Also, therapy was a little helpful but I didn’t find any great insight or answers but it was a useful way of unloading my problems onto someone who was sympathetic and trying to help.