Hi Anita,
Thanks for your kind follow up

Yes my father’s mother is still alive. I told her about my father’s previous problems with me (two years ago) and she stood by me and forced my father to apologize to me, but I did not yet tell her about the money issue, which as I said before, it became clear to me just last month when my father admitted his secret bank account. I hate to go to his mother again and annoy her, but I might do it anyway in the upcoming confrontation.

About your second point, I guess I am strong and confident with all people EXCEPT my father. That was my weak spot and I admit it. I trusted him to full extent and I never questioned his actions for years, and sadly he considered that to be weakness and hence he easily stole my money and looked innocent and assured of his safety. BUT since I confronted him about the “illegal affair hoax” he actually became very cautious in dealing with me.. I stopped him; uncovered his lies; made it know to him and his mother. I proved to him that I can be very strong if he ever again stepped on my feet. That made him somewhat vulnerable and a bit worried of me for the last 2 years.

Last month he just made a mistake of casually telling me about the $500,000 bank account. Maybe he forgot the fact that its the money he was stealing from me seven years ago during my four years of overseas employment. Maybe its age-related memory issue or simply some symptoms of Alzheimer! I don’t know.