Dear flyby:

It could be a glitch in the wedding planning part. The person or persons who planned the wedding didn’t do a good job and … forgot you are a guest and where you should sit etc.

Regarding not being a bride’s maid, you knew that ahead of time: did you have a problem with that before the wedding; knowing you will not have that role?

I hope you do talk to her soon about that, when she is a bit settled in her marriage, following her honeymoon or so.

anita