Hi Anita.

I did not know about a wedding party. I had assumed there wasn’t a wedding party honestly because I couldn’t imagine not being in it, and all of my other friends were in it and never said anything. But the truth is I was terrified this would happen. At the rehearsal dinner all seemed fine and I was treated just like everyone else. I just didn’t think this would be something that would make me reevaluate my friendship with her so blatantly. Right now I feel like that’s the only thing I can do.