Dear Suanne Baker:

I am trying to understand why you wrote that you don’t know if you are “listening too much to emotions instead of logic.” Why is it not logical to re-start the relationship with Nic and plan a future together?

Is it illogical because although you are now doubting your religion you are still intent on marrying a man of your religion? Do you still see it necessary to marry a man who will be approved by your parents?

anita