I didn’t want to ask her to spend time with me anymore. I had to accept that she’ll keep spending more time with him. I was also tired of her excuses and gals promises. It really hurt when she didn’t speak to me over a month after she told me she’ll speak to me in 2 weeks. I asked myself don’t I deserve better? None of my friends don’t give me false promises and excuses like she did. The more I kept tolerating what she did the more excuses I kept getting from her. My therapist told me that If I continue to still be her friend, then I have to accept what she’s been doing but I’ll only keep getting hurt. He told me that I have been feeling miserable with what she’s doing and that I have to focus more on myself. When I told her, I didn’t want to be her friend anymore, I cried. It was a mixture of relief and sadness. I don’t want to keep hurting her but I don’t want myself to keep getting the short end of the stick