Dear Jay-me:

In your note to me you wrote: “he keep on saying we will be fine”

Two things:

1. He shouldn’t speak for you. He can say: I will be fine, not WE will be fine.

2. He can’t predict the future, not even his own. He can’t tell the future. He may be fine or he may not.

Do not let him speak for you- your brain is there for your use, for your thinking, for your figuring things out-do not give him your brain’s job- it is YOUR brain that is best equipped (with your life experiences, your feelings) to figure out what is fine by you. Not his.

anita