Hi zxyop,

If those girls weren’t mean to you, I would say you were over reacting. By him hanging out with them and receiving that one girl’s texts knowing that they don’t like you, he at the time was tacitly choosing them over you.

Then you took a stand.

And I’m sorry to say, that he chose them.

To the point that he is now cold to you. Yes, on paper you are in a relationship. But you’re not REALLY in a relationship.

And now you are in the adult world. And he is still a student. It’s time for you to Level Up. With a full grown man.

Let him learn life’s lessons. Without you. Perhaps that will be his hardest lesson of all. When, not if, when he comes back (they always do) say, “You had your chance.” And mean it.

Best,

Inky