Dear singhcool:

Selectively connecting with people is the way to connect with your emotions. You are doing it right now, here on this website. You are connecting with me and hearing is not required here. Maybe others will reply on your thread or threads and you can connect with them as well. If here is the only opportunity for you to connect right now, take advantage of it.

And then look for those opportunities elsewhere, in person as well. You wrote that “no one wants to hear your problems.” – this is not true. I do. If I met you in person and you would open up to me about your problems, I would want to hear it. Thing is, I am not the only one. There are people who prefer to listen to your problems than they do partying. Yes, there are such people.

Keep your eyes open for such people- maybe they are in the library reading books about their problems, their family members’ problems, trying to find solutions… and talking with you (outside the library silence-required areas) will stimulate them to find solutions to the problems they are dealing with. Maybe you can cooperate with another, as a team, to solve similar problems.

Reply again, anytime. You have an opportunity here.

anita