Dear Ninja:

You made a good point in your last post, one I didn’t think about. I am connecting what you wrote before- that a woman who had many sexual partners before marriage is more likely to be unfaithful to her husband. So what you are saying is that having many partners indicate a woman’s lack of self discipline and higher values. In the case a woman has practiced self discipline and that was the reason she had fewer men, that would make sense.

But if a woman had no sexual partners, that may be because she was shy not because of self discipline?

Or a woman may have been living at home with very controlling parents, and once married and away from her parents, she may feel free to make up for lost time through infidelity.

I suppose, low number is not necessarily an indication of self discipline- I am not trying to prove you wrong, Ninja, or argue with you. I am saying that there are multiple factors involved. We can drop this and let this thread go back to the past where it may belong.

anita