Dear life:

You grew attached to this guy. Florida is a big state. If in a few days you will happen to be really close to his location, why don’t you meet him in a coffee house for a conversation. Just a conversation. Ask him questions, for information. You can prepare the questions ahead of time. Ask him about his online xrated activities- those may be a habit that, even if you lived with him, he may continue, it being a habit. Ask. Listen.

Don’t rush into any decisions, gather information. Then take the information back home with you and figure it out later.

anita