Dear Shelly:

From the title I thought he was completely ignoring you, but he is not COMPLETELY ignoring you. I also thought he disappeared from your life by the title of your other thread: MIA. Maybe he really is busy; you are very anxious, you wrote so in your first thread.

I hope you can find a way to calm yourself- there are ways, competent therapy can help you with insight into the origin of your anxiety and teach you skills, and most important, Mindfulness, so that you are way, way less desperate for assurance and reassurance.

Did you share about your anxiety to your boyfriend? Does he know how upset you are about him not contacting you often enough?

anita