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November 30, 2016 at 7:29 am
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audrey horneParticipant
Thanks for your insightful reply. I do think he puts a mirror in front of me. I am trying to learn to get a grasp on my emotions; many of the fears and self-directed insults that fly through my mind when I am in a panicked state due to him not calling are simply cruel and terrible. I am trying to learn self-acceptance and that his intentions are never to hurt me. At the same time, his actions do hurt me, over and over.
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