What if she just says “i’m working a lot” like last time? I dunno why i’m stressing out over it, I could care less about the other people not texting me first although they do, just like me. Actually I DO know the answer why i’m stressing a lot, but I don’t really wanna say it in this thread. Reading more about this situation I saw a guy post something along the lines of this to another person who’s wondering why her friend does not text her first “She’s not tired of talking to you and you should talk to eachother” and other things. Also talked about the friendship has always been that way, it’s always been this way for me since Sept.

Should I just text her right now instead of waiting and ask? “Hey I got a question for you and was looking for an honest answer”, then she says “ok ask away” or whatever, then i’ll say “I was wondering if you are not into texting first? I’ve not got a text from you out of the blue since September”.

It just doesn’t make sense she would want to push me away? we still get along great, lose track of time talking and can talk for HOURS enjoying a coffee, or a dinner. I still want to give her that present…as for coffee? it’s been about a week and a half since she asked and I said a week or 2, but i’m a mess…I can’t even handle my own thoughts! let alone being around her for a little while.

So shall I ask her that? perhaps also say I was curious about why I don’t get a text from her anymore out of the blue and had to look up the reason and that’s why i’m texting you.