Dear Isra:

The futility of self sacrifice, is what comes to my mind. You wrote: “…how hard I tried to stay for his sake, and for how long. He’ll never know how many times I cried…It took everything in me to stay so many times”-

And the results?

I suggested to you before, on the other thread, to not sacrifice yourself for him or for anyone. As you can see- your sacrifice hurt you and he is as hurt and angry as can be. It didn’t work.

Please, let this experience cement in your mind, the Futility of Self Sacrifice.

You have your own challenges, take care of yourself first and foremost. Do not take responsibility for his feelings. And see his feelings for what they are, currently: he is angry at you and he wants you hurt. Empathy for him is unwise. Direct your empathy to yourself. Be your own number one and you will see good results!

anita